A real man would never hit a woman back unless needed for self defense.

January 26, 2016, 6:52 pm

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The debate "A real man would never hit a woman back unless needed for self defense." was started by DarkDerpy on January 26, 2016, 6:52 pm. 29 people are on the agree side of this discussion, while 7 people are on the disagree side. That might be enough to see the common perception. It looks like most of the people in this community are on the agreeing side of this statement.

aliot posted 1 argument, DarkDerpy posted 3 arguments to the agreers part.


confident, yashie, DarkDerpy, aliot, flipbucket, omactivate, ThiagoCarfi, sasamikowa3, Fettywap100, H_Muneer, DiamondPerfect and 18 visitors agree.
marvin771, Raydiff3r, Cato and 4 visitors disagree.

ReadyToBegin
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"Not just guys. but everyone but like I said not everyone can be stopped. Violence is discouraged a lot by anyone in fact these days but when it happens its not usually between a man and woman. so why encourage a man to hit a woman out of irritation?"
- I never said that. Where are you getting that from? I don't want anyone to fight anyone.

"Why can't you encourage woman not to hit men instead of encouraging men to hit woman because he has the right to.Unless its self defense and cornered totally fine but most cases its nothing like that. "
- I specifed only self defense. did you miss it? I am encouraging that. That is what no violence would be.

"All what is happening is your encouraging violence in a way if you feel that men are allowed to hit woman not out of self defense not out dlanger but because she hit him."
-Did you really read my argument? I didn't say that quite the opposite. I'm trying to find our disagreement, but you are pulling things I haven't said. Please reread for understanding.

" Why not encourage woman to not hit men just cause they feel that since there not as big they can do it."
- I said that in my last statement. Seriously, did you read it. I want no violence to be encouraged.

" It's not double standards. How is that double standards to say there is a biological/physical difference between men and woman."
- That's not the double standard I am talking about. I am talking about how the question only states men. It should be everyone.

" were equal in value but were definitely not the same at all. Is it double standards the woman aren't allowed to join the NBA and only men?" --- Why do you keep bringing that up. What does that have to do with violence. It is not by the way, but I already agreed to that.

Please reread my arguments. You are misunderstanding it seems. If you have questions just copy and qoute them and I will happily address. I don't want this to be out of misunderstandings, but different view points. It seems ares are similar and nearly the same, but you aren't seeing what I am writing.

3 years, 8 months ago
DarkDerpy
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Not just guys. but everyone but like I said not everyone can be stopped. Violence is discouraged a lot by anyone in fact these days but when it happens its not usually between a man and woman. so why encourage a man to hit a woman out of irritation? Why can't you encourage woman not to hit men instead of encouraging men to hit woman because he has the right to. Unless its self defense and cornered totally fine but most cases its nothing like that. All what is happening is your encouraging violence in a way if you feel that men are allowed to hit woman not out of self defense not out danger but because she hit him. Why not encourage woman to not hit men just cause they feel that since there not as big they can do it. Its not double standards. How is that double standards to say there is a biological/physical difference between men and woman.Were equal in value but were definitely not the same at all. Is it double standards the woman aren't allowed to join the NBA and only men?

3 years, 8 months ago
ReadyToBegin
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"Well of course but like I said it happens. Fights happen both between woman and men and no matter how much you try it will happen."

--- That's true. I didn't deny that at any point. I said punching should be for self defense.

" Why should we encourage men to hit a woman back if it's not needed."
- I'm not nor did I ever say that. I said that everyone should not punch anyone unless for self defense. We should encourage none violence. I don't know where you are getting my words twisted from.

" Say she punches you because she was offended by what you say and I see this a lot. You don't punch the heck out of her cause she did that."
-Agrees with my point. I was taught that it was only self-defense if you are about to die or if you were in the corner being assaulted with no escape.
" There are plenty of ways that usually make it stop because woman think there allowed to hit guys cause usually the guy is bigger in some way. "
- Again, with my point. She should not hit him and if she continues he has the right to hit her if it gets serious (see above)

"If you tell her to stop hitting you in a serious tone more than less likely it will never happen."
-(see above)

"Of course a girl can be equal size as a guy can do the same thing but usually the girls who feel there allowed to do that are smaller than the guy and assume in the head since there bigger they can handle it. Girls and guys are equal in value. Not biologically. "

- She shouldn't feel entitled to do that. We should promote no one hitting anyone unless for defense. I dont see how your point here is a response to mine.

"What's hitting back gonna do for you if its only cause your offended? Is it because its a double standard. Does it do anything positive"

--- Exactly. What are you misunderstanding? I said that only for defense. I agreed with the question/topic statement only that I wanted it to branch out more to all people. Yes, I am notorious for hating double standards, but I was hampering on the wording? Why stop just guys? Why not everyone. Nonviolent relations are very positive.

3 years, 8 months ago
DarkDerpy
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Well of course but like I said it happens. Fights happen both between woman and men and no matter how much you try it will happen. Why should we encourage men to hit a woman back if it's not needed. Say she punches you because she was offended by what you say and I see this a lot. You don't punch the heck out of her cause she did that. There are plenty of ways that usually make it stop because woman think there allowed to hit guys cause usually the guy is bigger in some way. If you tell her to stop hitting you in a serious tone more than less likely it will never happen. Of course a girl can be equal size as a guy can do the same thing but usually the girls who feel there allowed to do that are smaller than the guy and assume in the head since there bigger they can handle it. Girls and guys are equal in value. Not biologically. What's hitting back gonna do for you if its only cause your offended? Is it because its a double standard. Does it do anything positive.

3 years, 8 months ago
ReadyToBegin
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I am talking about the phrasing of the question specifically. I don't believe anyone should beat anyone unless for self-defense.

3 years, 8 months ago
DarkDerpy
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Its not really sexist to me. Fights shouldn't happen. but it does. Mostly between the same sex. So why should we encourage it between a male and a female. There is a difference between males and females. Were equal in value. I'm not saying girls are weak or guys are strong but It just works out more easier if a guy doesn't hit back unless needed to. I mean if the girl is all built and equal sized...I have nothing to say about that but most of the time I'd say if men were allowed to hit woman It would grow and encourage violence towards woman. Violence towards men..well like I said if its huge its a big deal obviously but most of the time from what I witnissed most guys don't take it as a big deal when its a shove or punch. Mostly just see it as small thing and laugh it off. I have seen one guy get annoyed and told his friend off and yelled at her. She stopped like that and looked like she was gonna cry. If its actually serious and she's trying to beat you up or gang up with her friends obviously you have the right. There is difference between gender. Differences doesn't make it sexist. Would you consider the NBA sexist for not allowing woman to play?

3 years, 8 months ago

if she is holding a knife at you probly

3 years, 8 months ago

People shouldn't beat people ever . . . unless you are into that bdsm or that self-defense thing to.

As for the true man remark. Seemed a bit sexist, but I am sure I just took it out of context or something.

3 years, 8 months ago
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