The debate "Entitled Women Get Rewarded More By Men" was started by
March 24, 2020, 2:46 pm.
43 people are on the agree side of this discussion, while 12 people are on the disagree side.
That might be enough to see the common perception.
It looks like most of the people in this community are on the agreeing side of this statement.
LittlePrincess posted 4 arguments, Allirix posted 4 arguments to the agreers part.
Nemiroff posted 8 arguments to the disagreers part.
LittlePrincess, Khumo, Allirix, kraDTheMerchant, Dazed_Confused, StrykerX12, Paula, Joelm, rhaegar and 34 visitors agree.
Nemiroff, akashmeka, tisya_aaa and 9 visitors disagree.
Either way, I agree with you. If you set the bar high people will either ignore you or try to perform at that standard. Those that do perform at that standard but don't for others will appear to be rewarding you
Could you explain what you mean by entitled in more detail.
I'm not sure if you're using it to mean something benign like believing you deserve a certain standard, or if you mean it as believing something abrasive like everyone should worship the ground you walk on.
As a female... who's pretty average... only been rewarded and treated right by being entitled.
"by guys who are interested"
i mean sure, if she has a hot enough bod, some guys will put up with quite a bit. that doesnt sound like her entitlement is attracting the men, it sounds like something they are willing to put up with.
i am not saying people should not have standards or confidence, but entitlement describes more day to day interactions, not just initial selectivity. in fact, a highly entitled woman may have to lower her standards in order to find a man who puts her on a pedestal and is willing to treat her like the queen she thinks she is. the other option is a man who is equally entitled and combined they have enough wealth to easily afford such a lifestyle for both of them, often celebrities or the very wealthy.
for example: i dont see an "entitled" person doing much to show their love for their other. they would certainly expect romantic gestures from their other, but i dont think someone entitled would put much effort into a romantic gesture themselves. this has nothing to do with initial selectivity. its more likely the other is putting up with the entitled person due to the other's insecurities or physical attraction.
Even when a woman has exceptionally high standards that may make them abrasive to down to earth people she's still going to be rewarded by guys who are interested.
thats the thing. universal qualities seem pointless to mention. stating someone is entitled should, imo, be a relative claim.
this is again, the way it is commonly used. if someone stops you in the street and tells you you are entitled, it is meant to say you are exceptionally entitled and is meant as an insult. they are not complimenting your confidence or standards. rather then a semantic and technical definition, as this is a casual setting, i believe common usage reigns supreme.
I'm pretty sure we're all entitled.
Do you have any standards or expectations? If you expect a certain standard then you are entitled.
So I technically agree with this because if a woman has higher standards or expectations, and she communicates them to a guy who is interested, then she is more likely to receive those standards.
That's basically being rewarded for being entitled.
you seem to be making a false choice between being humble and entitled with no inbetween. i have no problems with humble as one can by humble but proud, however entitled has very extreme personality implications. what i am saying is you can be proud without being entitled. entitled as it is commonly understood means a snobby jerk, and although they make for good tv, few actually like being around people who act that way.
Sorry I was pretty upset when I wrote that. Entitlement pushes men to respect women... I just deal with normal men who are good when I'm entitled. I've only ever been hurt when I stop being so entitled.
i thought you said entitlement pushes men to reward women, now you say it pushes them to hurt women. im confused.
also, it seems like you are saying all men are this way. are you implying all men are evil? and are you implying that women never hurt men?
perhaps it is possible that both men and women are people.... and some people are bad.
i get where your coming from but don't you think you have a black and white view of things here? i will insist that nobody likes a snooty pretentious person, but also few people will like a meek people who doesn't seem to even love themselves.
one can be confident without getting arrogant. going to far into either extreme is unattractive.
No. I'm talking about regular women. I've been humble and it got me nowhere and I got blamed for being treated badly but then as soon as I started acting entitled. The treatment was so much different. Guys have to be pushed to treat women right.
are you talking about celebrities?
Men love entitled women
nobody likes snobby people. of either gender.