The debate "If all your boyfriends are jerks maybe you're the problem" was started by
July 1, 2014, 5:14 am.
54 people are on the agree side of this discussion, while 20 people are on the disagree side.
That might be enough to see the common perception.
It looks like most of the people in this community are on the agreeing side of this statement.
Michelle_M posted 1 argument, echofrommadiun posted 1 argument to the agreers part.
Shift_Logan posted 1 argument to the disagreers part.
tkershaw3, Michelle_M, echofrommadiun, NinjaSloth, Agent_Firefox, kimberlyalexis5667, PhoenixFires, rachel, AlexLovesBenihime, HannahJanestyles, MerciPol and 43 visitors agree.
Shift_Logan, Malum_though, Eyrkah_Ralluq, madiluv, elainiephunt, alexandrajackie and 14 visitors disagree.
You have to see yourself first before you judge others even if they are your boyfriends. Maybe, they left you because you have bad attitude. You should be a better girl if you want to get a better boyfriend. If you always treat your boyfriends badly, your boyfriends always will be bad too and perhaps, will leave you.
You raise a good point, Michelle_M! It may be that you need to reevaluate the standards you set for your romantic partners, but it could also be that your partners need to re-evaluate the way they treat you, and other people in general. A relationship isn't just balanced on one persons' shoulders, after all.
Sometimes you need to take a step back and look at yourself. More people need to analyze their own behavior instead of always blaming someone else. Some people choose the wrong type or partner over and over, without thinking about it. Maybe try working on yourself as well as expanding the type of partner you look for.