We don't have to be ashamed of having sex.. It is just a natural process

anonymous
December 26, 2016, 12:10 am

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The debate "We don't have to be ashamed of having sex.. It is just a natural process" was started by an anonymous person on December 26, 2016, 12:10 am. 34 people are on the agree side of this discussion, while 7 people are on the disagree side. That might be enough to see the common perception. It looks like most of the people in this community are on the agreeing side of this statement.

Radhikadhawan posted 2 arguments, harshita posted 12 arguments, Blue_ray posted 5 arguments, PsychDave posted 6 arguments to the agreers part.
thereal posted 4 arguments, Radhikadhawan posted 7 arguments, HarveyLightfoot posted 1 argument to the disagreers part.

Blue_ray, harshita, BlackRavan, PsychDave, Rajat, deezmofonutz, LuizMouraBR, Ravi, WolfiesMom and 25 visitors agree.
PoliticsAsUsual, HellaJeff, thereal, HarveyLightfoot and 3 visitors disagree.

neveralone
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they are I have seen it and also have seen parents encourage it. this is something I want to change but don't know how.

2 years, 5 months ago
PsychDave
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Unfortunately that is true. It also helps if you are tech savvy enough to be able to minimize their exposure at home until they are a bit younger. I've seen 6 year olds with an iPhone and iPad and while it is possible to set parental controls on them most patents that I've talked to either haven't or don't know how. That meas that 6 year old is potentially being exposed to all of the sexual ads and content of the internet.

2 years, 5 months ago
neveralone
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well you definitely need to talk to ur kids before others expose them. which is a younger age every year.

2 years, 5 months ago
PsychDave
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I absolutely agree. Sex itself is not shameful, but it does have consequences. Parents should talk to their kids about the subject, which is easier without the shame and stigma that some groups attach to all things sexual.

2 years, 5 months ago
neveralone
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ashamed of sex is wrong. sex is great. when ur married. I believe u need to definitely talk to ur kid about it at one point and time. on a side note I do not condone his "locker room" talk

2 years, 5 months ago
neveralone
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so ur solution on a bad situation is not to fix it but to embrace it? idk what exactly u were meaning by Holy. but if ur asking if I watch porn or make such jokes. I don't.

2 years, 5 months ago
PsychDave
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Also, the site doesn't claim that porn raises it, it claims it raises the condoning of it. The distinction is the same as that made in defense of Trump's "locker room talk". If it has been normalized in society, there will not be the outraged by it. The solution is positive role models and discussing what healthy relationships look like. If parents are ashamed of sex, those are conversations they can't have, so they can't try to fix the problem.

2 years, 5 months ago
PsychDave
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Yes, I checked the site. I am also aware AF several studies showing that pornography reduces instances of sexual assault, so I have doubts about it's accuracy.

http://psycnet.apa.org/books/14194/001

http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11920-013-0362-7

Most research either shows no connection between sexual crimes and porn, or that porn actually reduces it.

I will agree that early exposure would change perceptions of relationships and sex, which is why parents should be preventing their children from accessing it.

2 years, 5 months ago
Radhikadhawan
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I didn't check the site but I will just say.. It is all happening because we r being conservative abt it.. Suppose parents do not act like it is very wrong thing.. Or we don't make jokes abt it saying it's a wrong thing.. If only we treat it as some natural process like respiration or digestion... The case will be totally different.. See earlier people were were conservative.. Girls always had to wear full clothes.. Boys and girls could never even meet properly out in open.. But now u see the scenario is totally different.. And I will also say that like earlier girls were not provided education and all.. Not given equal rights or anything.. But yet today the scenario is totally different.. People may have considered that girls should stay home and do domestic chores rather than doing work home.. But u see today women are managing both.. U may even consider this simplel example... Many surveys today say that men are better drivers than women but I don't think these surveys are really reliable.. There may come a time when women become better drivers than men.. I m saying not saying that people do this out on the roads.. I m just saying that we should not treat it as something that we r doing nowadays.. U may see govts banning porn sites or people make fun of someone by saying u r a f***er .. I mean wth.. Do u not do it.. Are u some holy Virgin saying all this to someone.. And plus all the nasty things we say abt porn stars and how we look at them..

2 years, 5 months ago
neveralone
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did u check the site? it says it raises it. also do these people have no control? or just choose not to fight? on violent movies I would say that's an age thing and is better left to the parents(to an extent)

2 years, 5 months ago
PsychDave
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There is a difference between being ashamed of something and sheltering children from it. Children should be sheltered from watching porn because you are right, it will alter their beliefs about relationships and sex. That said, porn itself isn't the problem. Porn has been demonstrated to lower the rates for sexual assault because people have an outlet. The problem is that children are not able to differentiate it from reality. It's the same reason kids shouldn't watch violent movies.

2 years, 5 months ago
neveralone
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look at our kids nowadays. they have porn right at there fingertips. everyday I see guys who I know will mistreat the girl because that's all hey know and I see girls accepting that because they don't want the "good" guy anymore. people say we are died. I say u are looking at oranges expecting them to become apples.https://aifs.gov.au/cfca/2016/05/04/children-and-young-peoples-exposure-pornography

2 years, 5 months ago
Radhikadhawan
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Ohk.. Tell me how will it affect children?? Why this is all a mindset.. If we all know that there is nothing wrong in it.. There cannot be any problem but when we start thinking that it is wrong we teach our children same thing.. U know there was a religion in which sex was a ritual.. What will u say abt it.. Were all those people mad or what?? It is just that their mindset was different.. Jahils.. Hahahaha, what does that mean??

2 years, 5 months ago

it is immoral to 'perform' such act in public. have you thought about children mind? what would they think about a couple doing the sh*t on the road and being actively photographed by strangers. child's understanding of the world and its principles would just smash. you jahils

2 years, 5 months ago

leave radhe he is a bloody f***er

2 years, 5 months ago
Radhikadhawan
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And anyways can u plz give me a reason for calling us that.... Are jealous of Indians...?? I guess so.. Do deliberate to f*** them..

2 years, 5 months ago
Radhikadhawan
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Maybe you should go to nursery and learn how to speak.. You moron...

2 years, 5 months ago

yeah, lets end this. but still, f*** indians.

2 years, 5 months ago

yesss

2 years, 5 months ago
Radhikadhawan
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Blue Ray is the new law maker... Hahaha

2 years, 5 months ago

THIS IS A DEBATING APP NOT A CHATTING APP. WANT TO HAVE CHAT? USE WHATSAPP , VIBER, FACEBOOK, INSTA,ETC.


DONOT POLLUTE THE APP WITH UNWANTED CHATTING. OCCASIONAL CHATTING IS FINE. BUT WHEN YOU CHAT EVERYTIME IN A DISCUSSION WHICH WASNT MEANT FOR THAT, ITS THEN WHEN YOU BECOME A TROLL.

2 years, 5 months ago

@all Trolls.....

You want to have a chat, then please make a new discussion, and do whatever you wanna do. BUT please dont pollute the app. Still you feel like having a chat, then this app's not for you. Thats the exit-----------------> []

Its a serious notice to all Trolls.

2 years, 5 months ago

i love this poem
nice one blueray

2 years, 5 months ago

TROLL POEM :P

There are three trolls
And they take roles

Roles of what?
Roles of chat

Lalalala......

The troll war started when
they got into a fight then.....

One says ''f***ing ......"
The other replies "You f***ing ******"

It now extends till date
for it has no fate.....

When will this get over?
and i dont think sooner.....

One of troll speaks an language,
and we dont understand its meaning...

Do they do serious debating?
Nope, all they do is serious trolling....


By Blue_Ray

2 years, 5 months ago

i too agree to dave

2 years, 5 months ago
Radhikadhawan
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Yeaaahhh!!!.. I love you man... lol.. It was blue ray's rule that here we have to speak only what everyone understands.. Anyways.. Do u also speak English??

2 years, 5 months ago

Frankly I for one don't care if you debate in English. It does mean that your opinions and arguments will be ignored and discarded by everyone who can't understand them no matter how well framed though. If you don't care, enjoy debating each other in your native tongue. If you want to participate with everyone else, English would better serve you.

2 years, 5 months ago

yess

2 years, 5 months ago
Radhikadhawan
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Rajat... Don't u know the rules.. Speak in English.. Hahah

2 years, 5 months ago
harshita
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no u r not
its a girls gang

2 years, 5 months ago

and i am onenof the members of mafia gang

2 years, 5 months ago

I must tell thereal.. I m the head mafia gang.. And I don't care where you live.. I will come to your house and kill you.... Hahahaha

2 years, 5 months ago

TROLL POEM :P

There are three trolls
And they take roles

Roles of what?
Roles of chat

Lalalala......

The troll war started when
they got into a fight then.....

One says ''f***ing ......"
The other replies "You f***ing ******"

It now extends till date
for it has no fate.....

When will this get over?
and i dont think sooner.....

One of troll speaks an language,
and we dont understand its meaning...

Do they do serious debating?
Nope, all they do is serious trolling....


By Blue_Ray

2 years, 5 months ago

He will start crying... Hahaha

2 years, 5 months ago
Radhikadhawan
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Rajat.. Mai is thereal ko galiyan de dunga

2 years, 5 months ago

right baby

2 years, 5 months ago
Radhikadhawan
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Harshita I think he is probably mad... Hahahaha.. N we don't talk to idiots..

2 years, 5 months ago
Radhikadhawan
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See how this shitty mouth is speaking... I guess it was you who married a 4 year girl... Coz I can probably not.. I m a girl myself.. Isliye bolte h bina soche smjhe NHi bolna chahiye... Saale chutiye.. Bhen chod... Madarchod... Bhosadike... Suck your own ****... You bloody bustard.. N I'm not triggered.. It was actually praise for a person like you... You deserve much more than this..

2 years, 5 months ago

saale chutiya bc tu hai kaha se

2 years, 5 months ago

and i full well know what you are capable of, and if i forget i could just ask your child bride who you married when she was 4.

2 years, 5 months ago
thereal
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loool rhadika you look so triggered. why dont you go tell your mom to make some curry, you fat currymunching slice of cow shit?

2 years, 5 months ago
Radhikadhawan
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I guess he too was cursing us by saying f***ing Indians.. And if he has freedom of opinion I too have it..

2 years, 5 months ago

when it's in marriage definitely. but there are some problems when it's outside.

2 years, 5 months ago

I have a few complains about you people----

1) You people are using a language that we dont understand.

2) Thereal has freedom of opinion and speech. So you cant curse him.

3) Why dont you people do some serious debating?

2 years, 5 months ago
Radhikadhawan
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Why don't you go and die somewhere.. You f***ing ******..

2 years, 5 months ago

Yes we r... Mr judgemental... Saale chutiye... Apni maa chudvane aaja yha pe... We will tell u what we r and what we can de.. Teri gaand cheel K rakh denge..

2 years, 5 months ago

u r f****ing thereal !!! :/

2 years, 5 months ago

what do u mean by f****ing???

2 years, 5 months ago

f***ing indians

2 years, 5 months ago

exactly

2 years, 5 months ago

Of course.. It is one of our life processes we don't have to be ashamed of it.. The mere idea of it seems ridiculous to me..

2 years, 5 months ago
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